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[quote=Anonymous]OP, another way I looked at things when trying to decide what path to take was this:

If I could go on vacation away from all my problems for 6 months, and give my life over to my sister or a friend to make the tough calls on what needs to stay and what needs to be pruned... what would I hope my sister/ friend would have waiting for me?  And then DO those things for yourself!

The pain has to do with you being emotionally INVESTED in your life and the time you feel you wasted (and since you were TTC, you probably also feel you just REALLY want that baby and now it may be another 1+ years).  Take a deep breath, a step away from all those emotions, and make the logical decisions you know need to happen.

Remember, if men are like trains, the 'right' train can't pull into the station while the 'wrong' train is still parked there.  Kick out that wrong train so the right one can come in!!!  Best of luck and (((hugs)))) to you.  I'm not making light of your situation, but please consider the consistent advice you're getting here.  You have a new lease on life - take it!![/quote]

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