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[quote=Anonymous]Deal breaker. it sounds like OP somehow doesn't know that some women genuinely don't want kids. OP, it is true. I have a friend who actually had to get her tubes tied before men started believing her. I have another friend, a man, who waiting out a marriage for 12 years convinced that his wife would change her mind about kids -- she never did, because she genuinely didn't want kids. He remarried in his 40s and finally had one. I have another friend who was sexually abused as a child and will never have kids because she doesn't want to deal with the trauma again. I have a friend who is very career focused and would much rather be free to follow her career wherever it takes her than have a child. children are not for everyone (and I say this as someone who has two kids, LOVES being a mother, and made it clear to my husband very early that having kids was a part of my plan.) I think i've read that when it all shakes out, about 50% of people don't end up having kids, either because they don't want them or because they don't find a partner in time. Find someone who wants kids. [/quote]
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