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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone who is upper middle class and considers herself as lucky, I hold myself to a high level of generosity and sensitivity especially when I comes to hired help, such as nannies, house keepers, and ANY labor than I inter act with. I have NO IDEA if these women have to do a second shift at another job. Maybe they don't have time to go home and shower? Maybe they live in cramped conditions and it is a hassle to get bathroom time. The point it, it causes me NO inconvenience and if this helps make their lives a bit more convenient, then I'm happy they are using my shower.

It just surprises me how the privileged are not more sensitive, grateful, and generous.  At a very very bare minimum, I would be horrified to admit I filmed them naked[b] and invaded their space as such. [/b]There is no way I would bring this issue up and have them suffer that humiliation and degradation of knowing they were filmed nude. I would destroy the video and never set it up again in that room without them knowing since they might be in a state of undress.

The fact OP set it up in the bedroom to test it is very strange.[/quote]

I agree with this.  My first thought was that many of these women live in very crowded conditions (I know my person lives with many family members ) and getting a private, clean shower must be difficult.  However,  I also agree it is a bit strange but because my first thought was the above I would let it go.  Plus, as was stAted, I would just be too embarrassed to admit the taping -- both for them and myself.  Now if it was stealing or kicking your dog, I would bring it up.  I do sense you are creeped out but also sound like you have empathy so I am sure you will handle it with grace however you decide.[/quote]

The housekeepers space was not invaded, they were working in the homeowners space. The homeowners would have had no reason to believe if they set up the camera in their bedroom they would catch their housekeepers naked and using their shower! [/quote]

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