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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have another kid. Meanwhile use this to your advantage. Whatever you want your husband to do with the kid, model it[/quote]

I can’t. Too old. Lots of IVF. Long story. Husband wants me to do donor egg, but I feel the situation would be even worse with that child and I would completely be on outside looking in. [/quote]

Please consider this as coming from a helpful not snarky place.  Have you considered therapy?  The tone of your posts, from feeling "replaced" to "outside looking in" make me wonder if it's possible you are experiencing depression and this is affecting how you are viewing this dynamic?  Of course I could be wrong.[/quote]

Agree with this.  OP little things like this can definitely can get frustrating, and we're all a little more fed up than usual with the people we've been locked indoors with since March, but your posts seem like they're fueled by deeper emotion than the situation you're describing calls for.  You are not an outsider if your kid reads with Daddy.  You are not an outsider if you choose to grow your family with a donor egg.  You are still Mommy, a very integral part to your family, and I promise you you are irreplaceable to your child(ren).  [/quote]

Yes, something doesn't seem healthy about this relationship. I can't tell from your posts if it's him, you, or both, but it's off, somehow. [/quote]

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