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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Recently started dating this guy, it’s been about two weeks. Everyone we hangout with his friends it becomes an all night party. Enjoy his energy and outgoing personality but how do I relay to him I want more one on one time? He does drink heavily as do I so no animosity against the party life. Need some advice on how to ask without coming off attention seeking or needy. [/quote]

To me two weeks seems kind of soon to make assumptions about the guy, whether he'll never change, etc. He may be using his friends to screen you, see what type of person he is. Maybe they're having a party binge after some big projects, being cooped up due to the pandemic, because someone lost a family member, etc, who knows? If you like partying, which you do, there's not enough information for you to draw definitive conclusions.

That said, if you want alone time, tell him. Maybe invite him over for dinner, or go out somewhere just the two of you. If he balks, then that's a red flag, given that you've done nothing but hang out in groups.

A question to clarify, other posters are inferring he is using you for sex. But if you guys are never alone, when does the sex occur? [/quote]

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