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[quote=Anonymous]OP- did he do therapy on his own? Your post alarms me/raises red flags that he refuses to discuss it. My spouse had an incident like this, did a few couples therapy sessions that were worthless. Counselor saw nothing wrong with our marriage and blew the whole thing off. I wrote it off as a stressful time in his life (a college friend had a tragic death) and a “one-off”. 2 years later he started a physical affair with a stranger off the Internet. When there is rug sweeping which does nothing to address the underlying personal/individual’s issues and things go back to living right away...it is a set up for a larger betrayal down the line. They didn’t hit rock bottom and will look back on how easily they were forgiven the first time. They also get better at hiding. He needs to talk. Period. You need to not be afraid to keep talking and demanding more.[/quote]
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