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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He always wants a fight, he seems to hate my guts. If I say he hurt my feelings, he’ll say he doesn’t care and call me a baby. He seems to delight in rejecting me, letting me know he doesn’t give a crap, but when I’ve had enough he says he doesn’t want to divorce. [b]What is this[/b]?[/quote]

I’m gonna go with “he’s a jerk”. If you don’t have kids, leave today. The question isn’t whether he wants a divorce; it’s why you want to stay. [/quote]

Kids. They are the light of my life and I’m not ready to give up spending half of their lives with them. [/quote]

All valid. Mine was like this as well. We ultimately divorced after 14 years of marriage and three kids. He became an alcoholic over the course of our time together which led to the sharp uptic in the verbal abuse and contempt. He hated himself, it came out at me.

My kids dont have to see that dynamic. I have 70% custody and primary physical custody. I am a better Mom and better example to them having left. Yes, I miss them TERRIBLY and am literally heartsick when they are with him for a full week////but they appreciate me a million times more. THey respect me. They know 100% that they are my life and that Mom will always be there for them. I'm no longer gaslighting them re: their Dad and his nature, I am only responsible for my OWN parenting and role in their life, and we have become a true team since I got his drunk ass out of my home.

You can do this, OP. Trust me, it will rend your soul from your body, you will shed so many tears, and it will ache and be so lonely......but one day you will look back and realize that it was worth it. I was so much more lonely when married to someone who was cruel to me, than I am now as a single, capable woman.

You can do this. KEep your chin up. [/quote]

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