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[quote=Anonymous]My DH is kinda like that. Explaining that I'm busy or overwhelmed over whatever has never worked. It just turns into a pissing contest of "well *I* do XYZ!!" I just started treating it the way I would a kid's tantrums. You don't try to reason with a toddler, you just state it and stay firm. "I can't call contractors right now. If you'd like it done, you're free to call them and I'll be on board with whatever contractor you decide on" "I agree, you probably can't trust me to complete these things in a timely manner. You can call around and I'll be on board with whoever you decide" "Yes, I'm going on a walk with friends. If you'd like the contractors called, you are free to do so". Don't get pulled into the argument. Be the adult. [/quote]
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