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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is so obvious, it comes across as annoying and whiny when people expect their sex lives to be like college.

When I was in college I had a completely carefree existence.   I went to classes and spent time with my boyfriend and friends, end stop.  The dining halls provided meals, laundry was minimal, and I had a tiny one room space to take care of. Of course I was up for sex daily or twice a day.

Anyone who expects anywhere near that frequency when they have a fulltime job, house and kids is an idiot.  [/quote]

And yet here we are literally every day with men just have NO clue why the woman they married isn't up for daily lunchtime romps when he demands it.[/quote]

[b]As a man I feel there is “bait and switch.”[/b][/quote]

As a woman, I feel there was a bait and switch too!

My boyfriend used to do tons of stuff to help me out when we were dating, and yet, post-marriage, all the household stuff is on my plate and he pitches in sometimes, when he can — if he’s not too tired. I want that dating level of attention too! Bait and switch for sure.

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Same here!! While dating my boyfriend took me out 2-3 times a week to really nice restaurants. We went to movies, parties, theater, concerts, comedy clubs, vacationed in Europe, Las Vegas, Florida, California, Alaskan Cruise and Mexico. 
Do you want to know how many times he has taken me out after kids (8 years ago)? 2 times a year. Our anniversay and birthday. I ask him out all of hte time but he just is too tired or doesn't have time. Go figure. 
Dating i got flowers, jewelry, lingerie and perfume. Now i got a mixer and a vacume. [/quote]

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