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Reply to "Why are men surprised a change in responsibility may lead to change in sex?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Amen, sister! If I had one piece of advice to my younger self, it would be too extensively try out early on anyone who I was interested in dating - can they cook? do they clean their own house, can they plan and carry out activities that are thoughtful of others? do they prioritize my needs over theirs at least half the time? Marriage is only partially about falling in love with someone; it is also about finding an equal partner in life. [/quote] Similar--I looked very hard at whether a guy could at a bare minimum take care of himself (buying/ cleaning his clothes, keeping himself and his home clean) and then considerate and cooperation. Aaaaaand never married. Can probably count on one hand the number of husbands among friends and family that meet this standard. The vast majority of men in my cohort were apparently still raised in a very sexist way and expect women to take care of them. I'd like to think it's changing... [/quote]
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