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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree find a sitter for a standing date night every other week. Then it's planned and becomes part of everyone's routine. What did you like to do together before kids?

Sounds like DW may have anxiety that needs to be addressed. Its healthy and important to remain husband and wife apart from mom and dad. I will admit, sometimes as a SAHM DH has to remind me to turn mom off after the kids go to sleep. But I can't do it immediately. I need to go for a walk or take a bath or read for a little bit to decompress. Then I can regroup and be wife.[/quote]

Instead of making her do a 12-15 hour day with the kids, house and family schedule plus a date night, Op should hire a sitter and housekeeper to let his wife do some self-care and re-energize during the day. 
OP should be the one to train and manage the housekeeper with her every day tasks and weekly tasks (grocery list day, vacussme days, laundry days, tidy up days, paperwork filing day, garbage collection day, kids to soccer times, school zoom times, etc. Set it up OP.
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