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[quote=Anonymous]Met DH at 38. He was 39. We got married at 40/41. We did have to use fertility treatments and used Donor Eggs to have a kid. But I’m so glad my life unfolded the way it did.

So many friends who married in late 20’s-mid30’s are all now divorced or in horrible marriages (and they are miserable). I made peace with being single forever and that’s when DH walked in to my life.

When you are single, the worst possible life you can imagine having is being single forever. But being in a bad marriage is worse. And a bad divorce, where you have to co-parent, is even worse.

Quit thinking about life being about Single or Married. Start thinking about loving yourself and your life exactly the way it is. And if you aren’t happy with yourself or your life, then figure out what you have to do to be happy, then do it.

Then, it’s less about finding someone (anyone!) to fulfill your life. And more about evaluating if this person will make your happy life even more awesome (and easier). [/quote]

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