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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't BTDT, but if I were you and only wanted one more, I'd opt for an elective C section. [/quote] This. I'd find an OB that would agree to it. I know people will freak out, but I've had one vaginal delivery and one c-section and would have preferred the c-section recovery. Elective c-sections are very common in other countries. You generally have to pay a bit more, but lots of women do it.[/quote] In this country you don't have to pay more or search out a doctor who will agree to do it. Go to a private practice OB, tell them your concerns and I can guarantee they will find a way to get it approved as "medically necessary." I would also urge OP, despite not GAF what kind of birth anyone chooses, to seek therapy from a counselor with experience treating birth trauma. The amount of terror and trauma you have around birth speaks to a larger problem going on that probably isn't limited only to birth.[/quote]
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