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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he’s dodging a bullet. You met him a little over a year ago, and you’re playing head games because he didn’t propose on 1 June? You actually had been talking about it, and then you just go and dump him. You don’t love him, you love the idea of him and you’re 35 and freaking out. [/quote]

+1 Geez, OP - you had been dating a year, everything had been going great and you had many talks about marriage. He has made it clear he wants to get married, too. Then you hit a year and just dump him out of the blue — just totally blindside him - because he hasn’t proposed yet at a smidge over your year deadline? That’s not fair to him. You’re playing a mind game instead of communicating honestly and openly. You’re not ready for marriage if that’s how you operate.

Why didn’t you sit down with him and tell him how you feel, listen to what he had to say and then make a decision? Why did you just abruptly cut it off? Because you knew the outcome would be him begging for you back, and giving you what you want. Don’t pretend otherwise.

Are you really in love with him? Because that doesn’t come around every day. If you were, you wouldn’t be cutting him off and jumping into a search for the next guy who will meet your deadline. I feel bad for your BF.[/quote]

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