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I think it’s fine to ask him:

“Do you want to get married?”

If yes, go away for a romantic and call it your engagement weekend. Schedule the wedding no later than 6 months from now. The people saying this is emotional blackmail or whatever else, do not get it. She’s 35 and she can see herself building a life with this guy. The clock is ticking though. If he doesn’t want the same life, she needs to move on ASAP.

She doesn’t have time for wishy washy “somedays.” Someday is right now or it’s never. This guy is almost 40 and unmarried, so he’s been waiting for the perfect time/person for a long time. He’s got tons of excuses. A year in your 30’s is plenty of time - especially if you want kids.

Also given the pandemic, a big wedding is not going to happen anytime soon, so if he wants a life with her, he should be willing to plan a small wedding in the next few months. If he’s not “ready” to get married at 37 after dating for 1 year, he never will. In 5 years he would still be stringing her along and she would likely become a very bitter person who hates him.

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