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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You really need to up your numbers. A different guy a week until you find 2-3 you want to juggle for 3 months at a time. Then narrow it down to 1 you feel ready to go 'exclusive' with and he has six months to figure if he wants to take this further (going on long-term vacations together, moving in together, talking about an engagement)[/quote]

This is the advice I was talking about it's from the " I feel stuck thread. It can apply to you OP if you decided to keep dating.

But I think this is a good idea for 35 + women who want to get married. Don't go in guns blazing telling the guy about your timeline for being married in 1 year.and announcing you expect a ring by 12 months in your first few dates.   Guys are very good at telling you what you want to hear. Watch what he does.

I personally would not move in before an engagement, and that is with a plan that  we are engaged and we start planning the wedding  for a date within  3-12 months of  the time we are engaged/move in.

By dating multiple people early on it keeps you  from becoming overly anxious and overly invested too soon. You are better able to keep a clear head, and pick up more information about the men you are seeing, it also  gets the men to get their butts in gear if they are interested because they know they don't already have you and paying lip service won't be ebough to keep ypu.[/quote]

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