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[quote=Anonymous]I will say I'd want my kid to look like me, or at least someone in recent family history. It's really not that strange of a desire. As for mixed race kids, this has been an issue for my sister is black her children are black/white, but are very fair and people usually just assume they're are white. PEople have assumed my sister is the nanny is trying to steal her kids, and was lying about them being hers which is really a trip because skin tone aside they look exactly like her. I have wondered if white moms of children of color have the same experience or is white the "default mom" setting so people just assume it's okay. Back to the subject, yes I'd prefer my kid looked like me if I cared them for 9 months, or enough like me so that people don't accuse me of stealing my own child.[/quote]
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