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[quote=Anonymous]This is such an impossible situation. My husband wants to go visit his family and I have all the same concerns as posters have listed on this thread. But when I say I would prefer not to go, his mom goes on these emotional tirades about how we are depriving her of contact with her grandkids and how we don't care about her anymore. Her husband died last year. On the other hand, she sees her sister and daughter frequently, so it's not like she's alone. I feel terrible for being the person saying no, we shouldn't go. But I'd also feel terrible if we went and anyone got sick. I can feel them all wearing me down. And if they do, they we have to fight another set of battles over whether or not we will stay with them, if we will socialize inside, if they will be aloud to hug us or our kids. The whole thing is exhausting and I'm tired of being in this position.[/quote]
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