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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has he come fully clean. Given you a timeline, full access to emails, texts, call logs? Sat for a polygraph? [/quote]

My ex did this except the polygraph. He still cheated again.[/quote]

That’s my fear.

Did he ever do heavy duty individual counseling?[/quote]

No. Tell him to admit his cheating to his family and friends and those close to him and listen to him tell them how remorseful he is. He'll be humiliated into thinking twice of doing it again.[/quote]

Yep.  Already did that.  And he put himself in very heavy duty counseling to address childhood trauma.  2 therapists and a group session.  Having to face his mother, aunt and cousin that is like a brother to both of us was sobering for him.

I really believe in exposure.  They thrive on their secrets.  They justify and compartmentalizations (male and female cheaters).  They believe they aren’t hurting anyone because they are arrogant enough to believe they will never get caught.  They have no idea the psychological damage they inflict on their spouses and children.  A-holes[/quote]

Exactly. They thrive on secrets and are selfish narcissists. Did he cheat again after exposure? [/quote]

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