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[quote=Anonymous]I was spanked. My parents were always demonstrating active upset when they gave this punishment. I remember on several occasions feeling confused about why I was getting spanked, so it wasn’t a helpful tool for learning better behavior. I was actively fearful of my father until I was about eight, and I distrusted my parents, so I had a tendency to be sneaky instead of compliant. As an adult I really believe in logical consequences. If you make a mess, you clean it up. If you can’t care for something, it gets taken away. Break something carelessly, it won’t get replaced. Sometimes it takes a lot of creativity to think of a logical consequence. However, it is a much better tool for teaching self control and better behavior.[/quote]
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