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Reply to "Feeling angry about my husband and 2 kids that never clean up after themselves."
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[quote=Anonymous]I am right there with you, OP. This has been my life for 24 years. Husband is a slob. To him, every table surface is a dumping ground. Our three-car garage is filled with trash and tools everywhere. When he can't find a tool, he goes to Home Depot to buy a new one. He rarely throws anything in the trash, but leaves it wherever is convenient. He never puts his clothes on hangers, but in piles on the chair or the floor. I have tried for years to get him to understand that this is not acceptable. That trash should go in the trash. That everything should have a home. I have seen no improvement and it only causes arguments. Anytime I bring it up he tells me I have OCD and I need to let it go., or he will point out something of mine that has been left out as evidence that I am a hypocrite. So I have given up and fume silently as I clean up after him. My two adult daughters are living at home now and they are the same way. I have to ask them to put their stuff away. It's as if they are all blind to the mess. And now that we are all cooped up working from home I am filled with resentment. Would never have married him if I knew how bad this would be.[/quote]
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