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[quote=Anonymous]Your post made me sad, OP. And that PP a few entries up who said she identified with your DW and has no regrets --and who accused her ex of being a "shitty father and shitty husband"...of course I don't know her situation, but it is possible that this arrangement leaves the DH no option but to BECOME a "shitty father and shitty husband" b/c the arrangement is allowing a stronger bond to foster between the DW and DS than between DW and DH...and it will become a problem if it is not already.

I'm very sorry, OP. The best suggestion I would have is to have a heart to heart with your DW telling her all the romantic things you love about her that attracted you to her...and express that you NEED her to share your bed and to recapture that closeness you are losing. If you need to, frame it in the "I think it's healthy for DS to have parents who are bonded to each other, and I'm worried we are losing some of that and I want us to address it before it slips away"
No guarantee she will respond to it. But it isn't fair what she is doing. Not fair to you and not fair to DS.[/quote]

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