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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to find a way to make the "queen bee" friend useful and not put judgements on her actions. My "queen bee" friend  basically excommunicated one in our group because of a fight and in my opinion she definitely was the one that was in the wrong, but I kept that to myself and I stayed out of the fight.

Sound like we are in high school. AMR?   [/quote]

What was the fight over? 
I’m treading carefully because I don’t want to excommunicate anyone. I think for her, she just needs to be the planner and one organizing everything and gets threatened if anyone else takes on that role. Which is fine, but be civil and don’t try to make every social outing an opportunity to decide who you want to exclude. I can’t think of a situation where she hasn’t done this. I’m not talking about smaller outings of 2-3 people. I mean she hand picks one person to exclude,announces why and talks about it. . It’s not necessary. We all get along great and have always been a kind, supportive group of friends. [/quote]

So, I’m curious, what are some of the reasons she gives for excluding that one person?[/quote]

Everything- not Christian, age of the kids was not compatible (even though all our kids are within 1-2 years of each other), relationship thing or some drama about one of the kids (larlo
hit karla at her 2nd birthday, he has violence issues) [/quote]

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