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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH didn't look elsewhere, but I will say that his attraction for me went to ZERO when I was pregnant. I even thought I was a cute pregnant woman. Just my stomach grew and I glowed. He just wasn't attracted to me sexually. Still loved me a lot, but we basically became best friends for 9 months. No sex, not even once.

I think some of it is that instead of his hot wife, I was "mom" already. It happened with both pregnancies and then he was attracted to me after I gave birth and everything was back to normal. [/quote]

Same here.  DH and I have a very active sex life. The 2 pregnancies and around 3 months post-partum is the only time in our married life when we did not have sex.  I was very willing to have sex but DH was very worried that the baby would get injured or something.

He slept every night with his hand on the baby bump. He would come back from work give me a kiss and then kiss the bump.  He took excellent care of me during and after the pregnancies and he was a hands on dad who changed diapers and woke up at night.  In retrospect I think he saw himself more as a "dad" than my lover/DH and went in the full "protector" mode. 
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