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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the question is really "why do some men/women look elsewhere?" Full stop. Because they do it when their wives are pregnant. When their wives aren't pregnant. They do it whenever. There is always a milestone or special something (a birthday, an anniversary, a holiday ...) that can be held against the cheater by the cheated upon to express how much worse it is because the cheater cheated at that particular time (my birthday! President's Day! Our anniversary!).

But, it isn't. Because the cheater is just cheating without a thought for you at all. It isn't worse that he cheated the same week as your birthday when you were pregnant for little Larlo. It isn't. It doesn't matter that your cheater cheated in your anniversary month.  It isn't of any significance that your cheater took time between Christmas and New Year's to see his girlfriend, and didn't spend that time with your family. Because none of it actually had anything to do with you, the cheated upon. It has everything to do with the selfishness of the cheater.[/quote]

Most men look elsewhere to meet their sexual needs which are unmet at home. What's hard to understand about that? Easy to avoid this: maintain a sexually active marriage, doesn't need to be PIV, but SOMETHING on a regular basis, will avoid 99% of all husbands who cheat.

A tiny minuscule fraction of men who have active sex lives also cheat, but those numbers are so small not even worth discussing in this thread.[/quote]

I think you are the poster who religiously preaches the need to declare sexless marriages open.

Anyway, while I agree that there are many men who cheat because they are sexually starved, and said men would be faithful if they had a sexually fulfilling marriage, you are deluding yourself if you think only 1% of men who cheat are the sexually fulfilled ones.  Men also cheat for the thrill, variety, and all the reasons that cheating is fun regardless of moral consequences.  I wonder if you have ever been immersed in the business world of attractive men who travel for work.  Most of them cheat and it's statistically impossible all of them are in sexless marriages.[/quote]

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