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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good man, love him, and he's always had a lower libido than I. Compromise with reduced frequency and same-old, same-old super-vanilla (lets get real: less than vanilla) sex was something I could compromise on. But after 12 years, we're down to zero and have been for almost 2 years. I don't bother to ask anymore. I will get a divorce after kids are up and out in another 10. I don't hang it over his head like a threat because: a) I don't want coerced sex and b) a decade-long threat is toxic--we're still married, parenting, friends, and so on, and need kindness to do that well. Divorce won't be a surprise, though. It's depressing as hell, sometimes. [/quote] I could have written this word for word, except we have only one kid. Married 13 years, haven't had sex in 2 years. I've asked about it, tried to talk about it and his response is always "you're right, I have to do better." Like I'm a chore. I don't ask anymore.[/quote]
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