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[quote=ddintysons][quote]Good man, love him, and he's always had a lower libido than I. Compromise with reduced frequency and same-old, same-old [b]super-vanilla[/b] (lets get real: less than vanilla) sex was something I could compromise on.
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I am in my mid-50s and was married for about 25 years.  We had stopped having sex for about two to three years before the divorce.  We have two kids (both were out of the house when we split.)

Post-divorce, I have only dated divorced women with kids (because it is the group with whom I feel the most connected.)  My biggest surprise is how much the women I have been lucky enough to get know enjoy more adventurous sex, such as

Being physically controlled (e.g., pining their hands, holding them in place, picking them and carrying them)
         Being told what to do and when to do it
         Having their hair pulled or being spanked.

It is sad that a woman who wants this non-vanilla sex cannot get it, much less any kind of sex (vanilla or not).  It opened a new world for me. 
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