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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly does he say/do when you initiate sex (at an appropriate time/place)?[/quote]

He participates about 90% of the time when I initiate actual sex. But my initiation is getting less and less frequent because I'm completely frustrated with the situation. At this juncture, I refuse to initiate.  So we'll probably be at an impasse indefinitely.

He's not into hugging, kissing, or any other affectionate actions.  So, of course, he would never initiate anything like that.  I'm basically never touched in a sexual manner by another person.  It's super depressing.[/quote]
Wait, you have a 90% success rate just by initiating sex?  And your main complaint (not having sex) is easily fixed just by you initiating sex?
Sorry OP but you really need to get over yourself. Women are so spoiled it's not even funny.
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Yeah, kind of agree.  I think OP is complaining that she doesn't do it often but man, I would kill for that success rate!  My success rate is about 1% and we don't do it that often at all![/quote]

OP here.

I never said he was impotent.  He's functional and capable.  He just has zero desire.  So, yes, he will participate when I initiate, but I don't initiate very often because he makes pronouncements all the time as to why he's not in the mood.  Or why sex is so unimportant or boring or useless or stupid.  I initiate when I am completely and utterly at my whit's end.  You can't tell me that that is a healthy way to operate as a couple.  As I said in my OP, once a month at best, only because I initiate, cannot possibly be considered satisfying (pun intended).[/quote]

I am a guy (sorry I'm in this thread:)) and I can relate.  I'm the PP that mentioned 1% success rate.  Because sessions are so far apart, my stamina is not that great and as a result, the session leaves me yearning for more and she has no interest in a 2nd round.  So, not only are the sessions infrequent, they are not that satisfying.  It would be a lot better for both of us if we had sex 2-3x per week[/quote]

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