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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly does he say/do when you initiate sex (at an appropriate time/place)?[/quote]

He participates about 90% of the time when I initiate actual sex. But my initiation is getting less and less frequent because I'm completely frustrated with the situation. At this juncture, I refuse to initiate.  So we'll probably be at an impasse indefinitely.

He's not into hugging, kissing, or any other affectionate actions.  So, of course, he would never initiate anything like that.  I'm basically never touched in a sexual manner by another person.  It's super depressing.[/quote]

This is tough.  For those spouses that don't have sex (I'm one since spouse is not into it at all), sex is one thing and I get that can be past - just give me a simple hug/kiss/etc!  I think people think we are just sexually frustrated but that's only partially true.  We just craved to be touched....period.  Give me a hug/pat on the butt/kiss at random points in the day and that will go a long way to making me feel loved.[/quote]

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