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Reply to "wife angry because I made noise getting daughter ready for school"
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[quote=Anonymous]I know what happened only because I have been in your shoes, OP. You don’t think she should sleep in, so you were being passive aggressive and not trying to be quiet when she was sleeping this morning. I am not saying that she should be sleeping, but the way to deal with it is to talk about it and make a different plan, not making a bunch of noise when she is sleeping. Then when she was upset, you didn’t engage and tell her that you want to redivide household responsibilities. Instead, you acted like she was crazy for noticing the passive aggressive behavior. She got frustrated because you wouldn’t engage, and she upped the ante, then threw the coffee cup across the room. Now you get to be the good guy! This isn’t good for your marriage, OP. You need to change the way you deal with conflict. Be direct. If there is something you aren’t happy about, bring it up. [/quote]
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