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[quote=Anonymous]OP, there is a lot of life experience on DCUM, and I’m hoping that you see the pattern of responses.

The only thing I’d say is to issue an ultimatum to yourself, and not to him. Give yourself a timeline to get out if he hasn’t started addressing this seriously. Two years in, you shouldn’t be tiptoeing around expressions of love, or serious expressions of a future life together. These are supposed to be the sweet years of your relationship, before real life becomes hard. If he can’t navigate this part, he’s never going to be able to navigate the really hard parts later on. Stop lapping up his crumbs and realize there are men out there who will be happy with nothing less than giving you the whole cake, happily, willingly, and without question.

And, this isn’t an insult, but understand that pretty much every torn up woman in a bad relationship has uttered the words “but I love him”. Loving him isn’t going to change him, and it’s not doing you any good, either. [/quote]

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