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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this is coming from someone who married a man just like you described. It will be like that for your whole relationship. He will NEVER take the lead or the initiative, you will have to push, and wait, and push, and wait. This can really do a number on your self esteem and if you marry him, you will always wonder why you were always the one driving the relationship and why you pushed so hard with someone who had no real desire or will to move forward with you. It’s not that he doesn’t “love” you or want to spend the rest of his life with you, it’s that he is averse to change and fears it. He becomes comfortable with the current routine and never will wish for more. So you have to decide if a) you really want to be with someone who will be like that for the rest of his life and b) you are ok with being the driver for the relationship forevermore.[/quote]
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