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[quote=Anonymous]So it sounds like currently at least 15 out of your 20 vacation days per year are dedicated to grandparent visits (either when you go to them or when they come to you.) that might be ok when your kids are young and travel w just your nuclear family isn’t as desirable but is not sustainable in my opinion as the kids get older. When your kids are 4-5+ or maybe even sooner, you’ll probably want to go on other family trips to other places than just visiting grandparents every year, right? It’s unreasonable and unfair for your in laws to expect you to come there more often or to make you feel guilty about it. I understand they want to see you more often but it’s unrealistic of them to expect that. [/quote]
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