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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Enough with these posts.  You knew who you married.  Next time hire some people to help for the day.  [/quote]

You beat me to it!  My goodness. These people knew who they were marrying!  They ignored the nice guys who would be doing the helping because of complicated emotional reasons. I get it. It’s ok. But hold the complaints![/quote]
You two are clueless. A man (or woman) can be a helpful, supportive partner who does 50% of the work pre-kids, but then can’t deal with the relentless responsibilities and selflessness required by parenting. I married one of these men. He was absolutely unselfish and a super involved, hands-on father the first few years he was a parent, but by the time our kids were in mid-elementary school and he was in his forties, his midlife crisis started and he was just over being a family man. No one saw this coming. He’s like a totally different person now, to the point that if he hadn’t had an MRI, I would suspect something like a brain tumor. He’s barely around our kids any more.

It’s bullsh!t for you to place any blame on the person who did nothing wrong today.[/quote]

Nope. Nope. Nope. People always show you who they are. It might be a small thing you don’t notice or brush off in the beginning but they show you who they are. You have to determine if it’s worth it to continue with them. [b]Most of the time people look past it bc at the time it’s so minuscule.[/b] People who don’t look past are labeled as too picky, but clearly they are on to something. [/quote]
That’s been your experience. That hasn’t been everyone’s experience. Someone who doesn’t have mental illness now could have it in 10-20 years.[/quote]

The bolded. [/quote]

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