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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Enough with these posts.  You knew who you married.  Next time hire some people to help for the day.  [/quote]

You beat me to it!  My goodness. These people knew who they were marrying!  They ignored the nice guys who would be doing the helping because of complicated emotional reasons. I get it. It’s ok. But hold the complaints![/quote]
You two are clueless. A man (or woman) can be a helpful, supportive partner who does 50% of the work pre-kids, but then can’t deal with the relentless responsibilities and selflessness required by parenting. I married one of these men. He was absolutely unselfish and a super involved, hands-on father the first few years he was a parent, but by the time our kids were in mid-elementary school and he was in his forties, his midlife crisis started and he was just over being a family man. No one saw this coming. He’s like a totally different person now, to the point that if he hadn’t had an MRI, I would suspect something like a brain tumor. He’s barely around our kids any more.

It’s bullsh!t for you to place any blame on the person who did nothing wrong today.[/quote]

Nope. Nope. Nope. People always show you who they are. It might be a small thing you don’t notice or brush off in the beginning but they show you who they are. You have to determine if it’s worth it to continue with them. Most of the time people look past it bc at the time it’s so minuscule. People who don’t look past are labeled as too picky, but clearly they are on to something. [/quote]

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