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[quote=Anonymous]I think there is a dual mismatch. You don't understand him and he doesn't understand you. I think sometimes women want their spouses to have a woman's brain and to think like them and they get frustrated when they don't. I think a lot of brains work really differently and you will be eternally frustrated if you expect another person to think like you do and to be your brain clone. Likely he also feels you don't really understand his brain and how he thinks. It is like love languages, people treat the other person how they themselves want to be treated rather than doing something they wouldn't want but the other person wants. You like gifts, your spouse doesn't - you give them a gift because you wold enjoy it and then get upset when they don't react like you would to receiving a gift. It is hard to go outside your own head but every easy to judge others for not doing the same. Show him the nail video on youtube. [/quote]
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