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No! Why stay with a man who doesn’t care about your feelings? Leave the self centered jerk.

BUT...  if you DO stay married to a man you don’t want sex with (“for the kids” ... “hoping it gets better” .. etc) it is not cheating and he WILL go elsewhere. This is the whole point. If your husband “doesn’t understand you” and that affects your intimacy, just end the marriage.[b] You cannot call him a cheater if you stick around to a man you resent[/b].[/quote]
of course you can!  He's cheating because he is unwilling to address the marital issue.  Now, if he has done everything he can to fix the marriage, and the wife still doesn't want to have sex, then he should tell her flat out that this he is going to seek it elsewhere, but he doesn't get to do that without trying to fix the marriage if the wife is also willing to fix it.

That's just having your cake and eating it, too.[/quote]
And of course he can call the marriage open. He is cheating in order to stay married. Because men do not remain celibate. This is important information for a wife whose "spouse does not understand her" such that she resents him and does not want to be intimate. If you are that wife, divorce your self centered husband (why would you even want to stay?) Otherwise, you must look the other way because the marriage is open.[/quote]

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