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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, my mother has done this kind of stuff. It’s so hurtful, and really messes with your mind because, if you’re like me, you’ve been conditioned to think this is normal. I’m not estranged from my mother after the latest incident. Your mom has some serious problems, none of which you can solve. Cut contact from your ex and mother. Fill your life with decent and supportive people instead.[/quote] Newcomer here. This forum is a godsend. Much better than seeing a therapist. Thank you your observation (about being conditioned); it is right on the money. I won't disengage or be estranged from my mother because she has a mental illness. However, before it manifested she exhibited this pattern and was outright cold and unforgiving after I had a child out of wedlock. It's part of her upbringing. My father didn't speak to me for ten years. It's helpful to finally talk about it with others who had similar experiences.[/quote]
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