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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Time to break up with your mom. She has directly and blatantly let you know that she does not mind hurting you. Anyone else in your life like that, you would stay away. In fact, you did with your ex. Your mother should have a stronger desire than anyone *not* to hurt you. Steer well clear of her.

I’m curious about why your ex showed it to you. Was he floating, was he concerned for you that your mother would do this, or what?[/quote]

He didn't seem to have any malice or manipulation behind it. He said he just thought I should know. [/quote]

Of course he did. He was showing you that he was winning, and enjoying how bad it would make you feel to see it. No one could be clueless enough to show someone information like that without understanding what a punch in the gut that would be.[/quote]

Or he may have been shocked by it and thought op should know what her mother did.   I’m not trying to paint him as a good guy after all he put the op through, but most people would find a message like that to be way out of line.   [/quote]

Or maybe he doesn't want OP's mom contacting him and he's hoping OP will say something to her about it.  It's probably an awkward position for him as well.[/quote]

But we can all agree that it is no coincidence that OP continues to allow two people who have hurt her so badly- and continue to do so- into her life. Know better, do better. OP, Please allow this opportunity to give you insight into the concept that you DON'T have to keep people around this to punish yourself. Something tells me that it's already easy enough for you to feel like sh!t without the help of others.[/quote]

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