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[quote=Anonymous]I found this thread very helpful. I also have struggled with no libido and when I asked my OB about it she basically said "you're a mom to young kids, it's normal..." but I don't want it to be normal. Anyway, I did some soul searching and realized that much of this "aversion" to having sex or just not feeling up to it, had to do with me. I was unhappy and felt unattractive. Once I started going to the gym, eating right, I saw a difference in my body and I felt better about myself. Once my body image changed, I felt sexier and actually wanting to have sex. All of this to say that perhaps there are other issues you can fix, not necessarily huge issues, for me it was losing 10 lbs. then once you do, you might feel better and want to have a little fun with your spouse again. Hang in there, sister, I've been there![/quote]
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