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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I have told him that I don't see myself ever being a SAHM. He is not wrong in what he wants. He grew up in nice suburb with a mom who stayed home until he went to school. He loved being able to have a mom who was there with him in his most formative years, and parents who were always there to help with homework, make dinner, go to his school events, etc. He wants the same for his kids. I can't fault him for that. It is weighing on me the more we start to get serious. He thinks I will change my mind once we have kids, or be willing to go part-time. I don't want to to do either of those things. [/quote]

Why won’t he consider staying at home?

Serious question.

Does he want you to do what he himself will not do?[/quote]

I bet he would but it is implied that he makes enough money to allow her to SAH. She does not seem to be able or willing(if she makes enough money)to do they same. It take trust in the other person for a SAHP to work out. She does not have that trust in him and seem worried about her money not their money. Also she has firm beliefs and may view a SAHP as less. As in SAHPs are fine but I could never be one and nor could my spouse be one.

So she should take a hard pass and let this guy go. I am sure there are other women who will not have this problem. Die on what ever hill you like but do not make others die on your hill. [/quote]

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