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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My answer is very different since you are divorced with 3 kids. What is really the point of getting married with 4 minor children when your arrangement is fine as is? I understand why he doesn’t want to uproot his house and life to live in a rental, honestly. [/quote]

It is financially better for OP. Duh! She could share her expenses of raising her THREE children. She wants to save up for their future house together aka her house since she can’t afford a house on her own, which is why she is renting.

I had posted pp assuming OP was in her 20s and childless. Everything different now that she has stated that both sides are divorced and children on both sides.

I believe the BF’s daughter lives mostly at mom’s house during the school year. He has a quiet house. Why in the world would he want to bring in THREE children into his quiet calm house.

Teenagers are moody. They smell. They are often messy. They cost lots of money and probably constantly want and need money.

Does he help drive your kids around after school? I have 3 kids and DH and I need to constantly juggle driving 3 kids to activities and often carpool because the 2 of us can’t be at 3 places.

You should put your 3 boys first. Or maybe you are by trying to better your financial situation by splitting bills with your boyfriend.[/quote]

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