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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have the same issue. Miserably unhappy where we live but spouse refuses to ever move anywhere. But filing for divorce would blow up retirement.[/quote]

I could say the same thing.  I could leave him, but I am still stuck living here with the kids.  So I might as well stay and try to make the best of it.  We were happy and loved each other at some point, maybe we will again one day.  [/quote]
I have trouble seeing how, within reason, location could have that huge an effect on your happiness. Unless, say, you lived in a highly misogynistic or totalitarian country. I'm very political and opinionated, but even in places where most people do not share your values, there exist potential friends. Where do you live?[/quote]

Lol! Apparently you have never lived in a small town or are VERY tolerant of different lifestyles. I'm not political at all and couldn't care less what people's prejudices or political beliefs are. BUT, let me share with you a little real estate tour I did in SOUTH BEND INDIANA. The realtor drove me around town showing me all the GREAT RESTAURANTS. It consisted of like an Applebees and 5 different pizza places. When I visit my relatives in a town of around 300k people, there's like two non-trash movie theaters, six semi-decent restaurants, and maybe one single "good" music concert in town every three years. So yeah, I can totally see how someone might be miserable because of location.[/quote]

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