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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Up to comfort level. I mean what is your kid going to do in a locker room? It’s pretty normal to see someone of the same sex getting dressed/undressed.[/quote]

Among peers is different, in my opinion. Any significant age gap = power difference = modesty difference. As a teenage swimmer, did I shower with my peers/dress with my peers in the locker room? Yes. Was the 30something coach a part of that dynamic, even though she often lifted weights, etc., with us? Hell no.[/quote]

Sounds like you were sexually abused as a child and maybe that is affecting your views on this?[/quote]

DP. It’s a sad excuse for a human being that uses this as a put down.[/quote]

It’s a sad excuse for a human being that reads a put down into a question. The PP is using very strong language to suggest that a parent changing in front of their child is somehow an abuse of power. It’s understandable if she has a history of abuse and I think people would be nicer to her in responding.[/quote]

By your own logic, it would be fair for me to say that the level of defensiveness in your post means something about this conversation is making you uncomfortable. Something about this conversation is bothering you. Deeply. Shall we draw some conclusions about you, based on the level you took this to just because someone posted their opinion when asked for their opinion?[/quote]

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