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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are this bitter and angry towards him, and you already have a child...why on earth are you still together? I agree with a PP...in denying your DH a biological connection to a second child, you are also denying your first child a biological connection to a sibling. Have you considered that at all?[/quote] So what if I was considering simply adopting? Would you all be yelling at me that no, I should do a donor egg? [/quote] I'm a pp. If you were wanting to adopt in order to deprive your husband of a biological connection because you're angry with him then yes - I would react the same way. Decisions about creating/adopting/parenting kids should never start in anger or be driven by punitive intent. It's just wrong OP.[/quote] I'm obviously not creating a child for a punitive intent. I'm simply saying I'm not comfortable with my husband having a genetic connection to the child, but me not having any. [/quote] Nothing about this will be fair no matter what you do. DH won’t get the carry the kid for nine months or have the option to nurse. You can explain all you want, but a bevy of strangers can feel your anger through the Internet. That’s not a good way to make life decisions. [/quote]
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