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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]White guys don't approach anyone in real life. [/quote]

This. [/quote]

White guy here and I’d partially agree with this.  There’s a constant drumbeat of stories about women being put in uncomfortable situations by men who are interested in them.  Honestly, dating apps give them the distance to not have to respond or feel threatened, or, to be interested.  I get a charge out of introducing myself, talking to and learning about someone that I think is attractive, but it’s not always the same experience for them.  
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That is sad men feel like they can't even approach women anymore[/quote]

There is a subset of women who think a man they don't know approaching them ANYWHERE is "creepy." You'll see various threads on this site where women describe being approached at the work (don't shi*t where you eat), gym, grocery store, their children's school, etc. as "creepy." It's hard to know a priori if a woman falls into this camp, so many guys prefer approaching online to avoid being labeled a "creep."[/quote]
This is simply not true and you know it.[/quote]

I’m the poster who wrote “a subset of women think strange men approaching them anywhere is creepy.” I do think some women feel this way. This is probably more so with younger women who grew up with social media and online dating. There was even 1 or 2 women on this thread stating they prefer to be approached online. I came of age before online dating was a thing so women seemed less quick to label men creeps. On the other hand they put up with a lot more of what we would consider harassment today.[/quote]

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