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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m 39. The only good thing about being divorced has been sleeping with new women, many of whom are in their 20s.[/quote]

To me being in your 30's and dating people in their 20's isn't such a big thing even if you said 21-22 year olds.  I guess for me it's more about the stage of life people are at and the 20-30's blend into each other.

However now that I am in my 40's I just can't see myself ever wanting to date someone in their 20's as they seem to be at such a different stage in life to me, I would find myself not relating on so many things.  Would I really want to go to music festivals and the answer is no.  I don't want to dance till 5am.

I feel the same for people 50 dating a 70 year.  I just think one is heading for retirement and the other is headed for old age, such different stages.

If I dated a 22 year old at 39 and it became serious I really would be wondering if that same person is going to still be with me when I'm 70-75.  I have just watched my MIL pretty much give up retirement as my FIL just got old and didn't want to do so much.  This would be my worries for the future and now yes she is really spending her days as a care giver.

But I guess that's why most men post that it's all about sleeping with them in their 20's, there doesn't sound like too much depth there.  Apart from sleeping with them there is no mention of enjoying their company it's just all about sex.[/quote]

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