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[quote=Anonymous]OP here again. 
I am not making up reasons for a low libido because right now is probably the highest it has been. Like if I felt closer/ more attracted to my DH we would be doing it a few times a day. 
Right now we are doing it a couple times a week but it is just so nonenjoyable for me that I almost dread it and would rather just do it myself.

The incident 3 years ago was quite an eye opening experience for me with how he views me/his family and who he will stand beside when times get tough (spoiler, not me). 
It is like a switch went off for me and though the light is still 'on', it has diminished severely and has not returned to what it once was. 
The rub is i do love him. I do. He is a great man in so many ways and a great father but as a reliable partner who puts me and our relationship as a priority? Not so much. This does not make me want to jump the sheets with him and it is like I see him as a good roommate, good dad, good person but not as "MY" partner.

Therapy has not changed anything as he is unable to see/take ownership for anything he has said or done. He is very much a 'past is the past' person but until i know he understands how that made me feel and that he is sorry? I just am not able to get turned on by him[/quote]

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