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[quote=Anonymous]My DH was like this too, only he did not tell me directly how he felt. Instead he was really passive aggressive. It was horrible. I was doing all of the overnight feedings since I was nursing, and he was super unhelpful, constantly going out to work out (funny how motivated he suddenly became), and then complaining I did not give him enough attention during the one time of night I would be able to get a longish stretch of sleep. He I don't have an answer for you, just don't do what I did. Instead of talking to him directly about it I got really depressed and bitter at him over the course of several months, until it resulted in a couple of Big Fights. I spent a lot of time wondering if our marriage was going to survive. We are okay now 6 months post birth after lots of talking and some couples therapy. He is finally plugged into fatherhood! But it was awful to spend my first months of motherhood feeling alone and unloved.[/quote]
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