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[quote=Anonymous]I'm not the OP, but to me socially aggressive means making friends with people who you think will somehow benefit you or your child. And to some extent, social engineering for your kid, which goes on more when they are young. I am a naturally outgoing person who can easily talk to people and I try to be very aware of that person at the event or in the room who looks like they want to engage but isn't finding a way to do so. Someone smiling and looking around. Someone standing just on the outside of a circle where it's easy with body language and eye contact to draw them in. On the other hand, if I see you reading a book on a bench I would never bother you. So I think the advice of make an effort and look like you want to be included is good advice. If you do that and people are STILL assholes...well then it's time to just evaluate how you got yourself in a community where you are surrounded by assholes.[/quote]
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